oh dear, i never thought i would do this, but... here we go...
i wish when people choose to say they are over someone, they know for sure they are really over him/her. an ex, to be exact. i know i can write about this because i went through a bad breakup too a few years ago, actually, many years ago, and it's all in the past. i have put it behind me and i do not wish to carry it with me ever again. i appreciate the experience, made me the person i am today. and i learned a lot from it.
anyway, being over a relationship, or being over someone, means it doesn't bother you what he/she did, is doing, or will do. the thought of them might come across your mind from time to time and perhaps there are times that you wonder what happened to them-that is if you don't keep in touch with them anymore. you stop being bitter about the past relationship, you hardly talk or even think about it anymore, you don't discuss it anymore, well yes, you do share the experience with someone when the situation is appropriate, but not talk about him/her per se, and most importantly, when u SAY you are over that person or that relationship, you stop bitching about it. the point is, you let go. you don't go around saying "that loser ex-bf of mine did this", or "that jerk did this, that idiot said that". i mean, come on! enough already. especially when that relationship has been over for 6 or 7 years. seriously. don't you feel pathetic? it's pathetic enough that you are still talking and bitching about it/him, to make matters worse you actually do it in public-blog about it. don't get me wrong, i'm all about freedom of speech. yeah, it's your blog, you do what you want with it, you write what you want. true. agreed. and i'm not about to start a catfight, or a verbal war or whatever. i am way above that. however, have some dignity, won't you? once and for all, let go. and this time for real. you keep bragging about how you've moved on, how you're so over it. but, obviously, you're not. it is sad, seriously. or should i say, grow up. it's about time, don't you think?
*i think H won't be so pleased when he reads this but it really got on my nerve this time. sorry hons.
0110hrs, Jan 15, The Hague, irritated as hell.
i wish when people choose to say they are over someone, they know for sure they are really over him/her. an ex, to be exact. i know i can write about this because i went through a bad breakup too a few years ago, actually, many years ago, and it's all in the past. i have put it behind me and i do not wish to carry it with me ever again. i appreciate the experience, made me the person i am today. and i learned a lot from it.
anyway, being over a relationship, or being over someone, means it doesn't bother you what he/she did, is doing, or will do. the thought of them might come across your mind from time to time and perhaps there are times that you wonder what happened to them-that is if you don't keep in touch with them anymore. you stop being bitter about the past relationship, you hardly talk or even think about it anymore, you don't discuss it anymore, well yes, you do share the experience with someone when the situation is appropriate, but not talk about him/her per se, and most importantly, when u SAY you are over that person or that relationship, you stop bitching about it. the point is, you let go. you don't go around saying "that loser ex-bf of mine did this", or "that jerk did this, that idiot said that". i mean, come on! enough already. especially when that relationship has been over for 6 or 7 years. seriously. don't you feel pathetic? it's pathetic enough that you are still talking and bitching about it/him, to make matters worse you actually do it in public-blog about it. don't get me wrong, i'm all about freedom of speech. yeah, it's your blog, you do what you want with it, you write what you want. true. agreed. and i'm not about to start a catfight, or a verbal war or whatever. i am way above that. however, have some dignity, won't you? once and for all, let go. and this time for real. you keep bragging about how you've moved on, how you're so over it. but, obviously, you're not. it is sad, seriously. or should i say, grow up. it's about time, don't you think?
*i think H won't be so pleased when he reads this but it really got on my nerve this time. sorry hons.
0110hrs, Jan 15, The Hague, irritated as hell.
